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June 3, 2011 / Rosh Chodesh Sivan, 5771

Dear Reader
I just wanted to give you a little heads up of what's to come. The response to our online Mishnah text study has been gratifying. Our process has been to ask a number of rabbis to write what they love to teach. In the weeks to come we will learn with Rabbi Ellen Wolnitz-Fields, Rabbi Adam Feldman, Rabbi David Fine, Rabbi Wayne Allen and Rabbi Robert Wolkoff. If your rabbi's would like to join this growing group of teachers ask them to contact me in advance to agree on topic and timeline.
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Rabbi Charles Simon
Author of "Building a Successful Volunteer Culture"
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Mishna Berachot
Chapter 3, Mishnaiot 1, 2 & 3
Š Rabbi Menachem Creditor

Mishnah Aleph
One whose dead relative lies before him [in need of care and escorting] is exempt from the recital of the Shema' and from the tefillah [the Amidah] and from tefillin and from all the mitzvot laid down in the Torah. With regard to the bearers of the bier and those who relieve them and those who relieve them again, whether in front of the bier or behind the bier - those in front of the bier, if they are still necessary, are exempt; but those behind the bier even if still necessary, are not exempt. Both, however, are exempt from saying the tefillah.

Mishnah Bet
When they have buried the dead and returned from the grave, if they have time to begin and finish the Shema' before forming a row, they should begin, but if not they should not begin. As for those who stand in the row, those on the inside row are exempt, but those on the outside row are not exempt.

Mishnah Gimmel
Women, slaves and minors are exempt from reciting the Shema' and putting on tefillin, but are obligated to tefillah, mezuzah, and birkat hamazon.

1) One of the reasons I was afraid of becoming a rabbi was dealing with death, and funerals, and grieving. It has proven to truly be an awesome task, one that humbles and honors, that is demanding and rewarding. I don't wish death or goodbyes upon anyone, but am fortunate when I am called to provide comfort and guidance. This Mishnah is a comfort to me, because when a family emergency comes up, I rarely have time to tend to everything waiting on my desk, much of which involves competing mitzvah-work. But, according to Mishnah Aleph even the Shema, a biblical mitzvah, takes a back seat to caring for those who have died. But Mishnah Bet is crucial to continuing living and working and emerging from the "death-moment." If I have time to say the Shema and attend to the other parts of my rabbinate, then I must - but only if I will be able to complete each task - the list of "to do's" on my desk grows legitimately long if I am necessary elsewhere. If I'm the "bearer of the bier" I'm exempt from other mitzvot. But If I've done my work in tending to the funeral, or the shiva house, or the myriad of details that accompany the Jewish experience of loss, it's time to get back to work.

2) Of course, Mishnah Gimmel hits a passionate egalitarian Jew square between the eyes. Much has been written regarding these questions, especially in "The Ordination of Women as Rabbis," published by JTS. The rationales presented by later commentators are fascinating in their diversity, and instead of repeating them, I note how powerful it is to read what once was the Jewish approach and to know that Modern Judaism has grown and matured in its approach. The tension of a textual tradition and an evolving sense of truth is serious and worthy of continued attention.

This week's Mishnah lesson was written by
Rabbi Menachem Creditor

Rabbi Menachem Creditor is the spiritual leader of Congregation Netivot Shalom in Berkeley, CA. He is founder of ShefaNetwork.org: The Masorti/Conservative Movement Dreaming From Within, chair of Bay Area Masorti, international cochair of Rabbis for Women of the Wall, and author of TheTisch, an electronic commentary on Jewish Spirituality.

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